How often we follow our thoughts, more than is sometimes good for us.
When we are together with others, it can sometimes happen that we assume that the other person can do more. Or is further along in their development, on their career ladder, in building up their independence.
Far from it, it's just our assumptions that we assume. But unfortunately not in the truest sense of the word. Not even in faith. But in an imagination.
We don't realise that the other person would tell us where they are in their life if we expected less (or even nothing). Would assume. Would demand.
But trust.
Then the other person would also reach his destination more quickly as soon as he unconsciously frees himself from us...
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